Who Do You Surround Yourself With?

This is one of the articles/lessons that I most appreciate. Thought I'd revive it and take it to another level =)

They say you become most like the five people you are closest to.

We are truly impacted by everyone we come in contact with. Each one makes an impression somewhat, with various intensities depending on either our closeness to them or the levels of our charges on them (positive attraction or negative rejection). Either way, a simple interaction can leave us forever impacted. Whether we are conscious of it or not (most of us are too busy to pay attention), as we engage with others, our energy is sparked in various ways.

The people we spend the most time with have a great deal of influence on us and our growth. Those we surround ourselves with are who we are becoming alike. Are the five people you are closest to in your life pulling you up to higher levels of yourself? Or are they bringing you down/holding you back? Would it be beneficial - and even great - for you to more carefully choose those five people you surround yourself with most? Perhaps it would shift your life significantly.

The selection of your circle of influence is essential to achieving your goals, greater levels of growth, and living your best life. This is key. Many never think about this and just hang out with people out of habit or based on location or other commonalities. Think for a moment about your mentors. Do you even know who yours are nowadays? What changes would you see if you could incorporate one or two of them more into your daily life?

Mentors often contribute to the greatest advances in ourselves. I see a significant difference in my mindset when I spend time with those who serve as living examples. My greatest motivators are those people that are exuding that which I seek to expand into.

Mindset is key in fully enjoying our experience and in growing. Most people who are successful in the ways that are important to us are great examples for us in regards to attitude and belief. My mentors are people out there doing what I dream about - daily - and enjoying life as much as possible while they're at it. By surrounding myself by them, I experience an immediate shift in attitude. I also "download" a greater vision, seeing much more opportunity and possibility. While around them, I receive lots of ideas without any direct attempt. My whole energy is uplifted just by feeling their essence and being in their presence. The more I experience this, I learn how to bridge these experiences and reach the same places without needing them to guide me there.

So stop and think for a moment of the five people you look up to the most. Its okay if you can't think of all five now, just give it some thought - right now. They don't all have to be people you know in real life, but at least half should be. Take notes of who comes up first. Then cut it down to the ultimate five for you.

Openly think about it now and keep your mind open to it during the next week. It can be lots of fun to find people you can admire in one way or another.

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BRAINSTORM:

(Jot down the 1st few mentors that come to mind. Its okay to get creative and messy here.)

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TOP 5: The Final List

Who _________ Why/What About Them Is Outstanding___________

1. ____________ _______________________________________

2. ____________ _______________________________________

3. ____________ _______________________________________

4. ____________ _______________________________________

5. ____________ _______________________________________

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Many people are attracted to a mentor who has accomplished what they seek to or is very experienced in something they are curious about (often to the highest degree) and provides source of encouragement. Others are attracted to people who seem to be really happy with their life...

Outstanding qualities of mentors can be based on ANYTHING, so have fun! Find silly things that do matter to you. As you explore yourself throughout life, you go through all kinds of phases. In each you learn more about your essential self, your core being, who you are.

I am going through this too and don't want to impact yours, so I'll post mine later...

Once you figure out who they are, get at least one or two of these top 5 in your schedule each week. If you do not really know a couple of your mentors, or they are super busy, figure out ways to remotely access them. Perhaps you can tune into some of their recorded teachings or read a book of theirs. Find a way to saturate yourself with the people in your list as much as possible and be open to adapting it as you continuously grow. =)

Have fun!