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My Love Wish List

There are very few couples I look up to today.  It seems more and more are unhappy, unfaithful, and/or non-existent.  


A woman that I look up to a lot, not only because of her sweet and loving personality, but also because of her success in love, marriage, children, and her career, recommended I write a love wish list.  


She says that this was what she did just before she found her husband.  They have been married for about 20 years, have three amazing children, and are a great team together.  It's so fun to hang out with them to see the possibilities that are out there.  So she told me to make a list and she'll have to interview whomever I date to make sure they are the one.... =P


I've made these before but I thought it would be a good time to make a completely fresh, new list.  It's worth a shot. :)


My Love Wish List (Qualities of My Ideal Partner):
  • Loyal
  • Loving
  • Great with AJ
  • Laughs at life
  • Affectionate
  • Intelligent
  • Funny
  • Open Minded
  • Confident
  • Sexy
  • Handsome
  • Attractive to Me :)
  • Caring 
  • Inventive 
  • Family-Oriented and Focused
  • Motivated
  • Dedicated
  • Handy
  • Friendly
  • Provider and Guardian
  • Sweet
  • Masculine
  • Strong
  • Steady
  • Spiritual
  • Honest
  • Responsible
  • In Service to Others/Charity Work
  • Successful
  • Wants a Kid or 2
  • Enjoys a Close Partnership with Me
  • Gets Along Great with My Family
  • Stays Connected with Me Throughout the Day
  • Great Communicator
  • Patient
  • Happy
  • Witty
  • Pampers Me
  • Romantic
  • Treats Me Like a Lady
  • Thoughtful
  • Ready for Me
  • Available
  • Local
  • Shares Everything with Me (Willingly, No Secrets)
  • Hard-Worker
  • Goal-Oriented
  • Adventurous
  • Spontaneous
  • Takes Me Out - Eat, Fun, Trips...
  • Buys Me Jewelry
  • Mature
  • Fun to Be Around
  • Understanding
  • Adores me
  • Silly
  • Cuddly
  • Independent
  • Honors My Boundaries
  • Makes Things Happen
  • Eager to Learn
  • Committed to Our Relationship and Family

A lot to ask for... Just means I have to be ready to give all these things myself :)  I'm working on it....


Any suggestions/feedback? 


Love!

by Danielle Crume © 2011


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