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Start with the Rocks

Every day we have things that are key and must be done. These priorities are the rocks in our day which all other happenings flow around.

Our rocks can be determined based on many different values. How fast we need something done, fulfilling a commitment we’ve made, paying off a debt we feel we owe, indulging in play, fulfilling a dream, a spiritual satisfaction… these feelings and many others often create our reality - based on the time we invest in them and how much we make sure they happen. Our real rocks are whatever rises as being most important at the time - that which truly receives our presence and attention.

We learn as we go - what we did that felt right and what we could have done better. We realize which rocks were a great decision and which were not quite ideal. As we continue along, we discover our preferences. We become more selective of our rocks and the use of all of our energies - it's a continuous inner exploration.

Steps to Develop Your Rock Placement Strategies

First start with an overview and take it a week at a time. During a Weekly Organization Session, selectively lay out your week’s rocks before they get selected for you. Start by looking at each day, one day at a time. What things rise immediately? Perhaps holidays, school, work, meetings, events, etc.

Begin with noting the things that are unmovable and then selectively place the rest. Create pockets of time for the things that you want to do.

Enjoy the process in determining what gets priority, what makes it, what doesn’t, and any new things you’d like to add. As you continue on in the process throughout time, be open to how these things change and what you feel more drawn to. Sometimes a simple shift in placement can open up the whole day.

Once a month take a wider look at the whole month ahead – weekends, vacations, etc. Should there be any special appointments this month such as health visits or family trips?

Make sure you are always moving forward on what you find most meaningful in all ways. As you grow and change, keep checking in to find out if you’re doing what you really love to do.

What rocks do you have in your day right now? Do you see room for improvement? Could you make more conscious choices that are right for you?

In Love,

by Danielle Crume © 2009
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